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Wed, 11/03/2009 - 12:04 — soLLeke

Hi vigi's

i have some problem's with my myself and with my girlfriend, i have a relation with her for almost 4 years now, and last week she said to my: boy i love you more then anything in the world, but i cant go on like this, and u know she's right Sad , since i start playing wow (1/8/08) i seriouly let her down i mean, i dont saw she had problem's, i didnt give her the attention she needs, lost my job, and many more problems, and i cant hide myself anymore from the truth, i need to do something about it, i need to get my life back Sad , im realy confused, i dont wanne lose my girl, and i dont wanne quit wow Sad but i think i have no choise.
Thanks for the great month that i had with you guys, i wish i joined earlier in Vigilantes, you're guild is realy great, keep it like that!!

Goodluck in RL & WoW

Greetings soLLeke

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KazuoMember

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@ Wed, 11/03/2009 - 12:20

Mate,

I know we have never spoken but I have something for you which will make your life improve, these are plain rules for life and a list of priorities:

1) Yourself - take care of that 1st as you will not be able to comply to the others.
2) Family - this includes your GF (but if you marry, Wife takes 2nd place and family goes to 3nd)
3) Work - No monies no eat (hope you understand what I mean)
4) Anything that you like doing (this includes WOW).

Always try to find a balance in your life Excessive of any of the above is not good but lack of the above is not good either, so prioritize and your life will fall to place just like a jigsaw puzzle.

I know what you are going through as I had the same problems b4 I got married and found a balance.

In the meantime GOOD LUCK from my heart and hope to see you back as soon as you can Smiling

Kazuo the 'heartless' warlock

shynaskiMember

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@ Wed, 11/03/2009 - 15:07

wew,

first thing is to relax,

I also had the same issue (like a lot of ppl) with my wife when I started to go "hardcore" on WoW, so here are a few personal thoughts:

Imo the best thing is to show you take things down a bit, don't play when you don't "have to" (ie, outside raids), keep your farming/grinding/pvp/cyberwanking times with Stellvia for when you GF is away/is busy/is in a good mood,

don't immediatly rush on the comp to switch it on when you get back home...

don't change yourself into a prison door when playing: yes you CAN raid and keep a minimum level of entertaining conversation

ALWAYS quit the game when things get nasty, cause it will ALWAYS do at some point- but officers can understand that, so can any of your guildmembers (if they don't, don't bother with them)

spend some real quality time on the non raiding-days, and sometimes take a couple days of rest from raiding to spend it with her,

all those things might sound obvious but I know in my case it took time to go smooth...
Just show her its not because you spend a lot of time on a videogame that this game means more to you than anything else. Hell of a job if you ask me Laughing out loud

I'm sure this happened to alot of us, so I hope you will get your way out of this very fast and can live the way you want - just relax, you'll laugh about it soon enough - it's only good memories Eye-wink
best of luck

Tinùviél "Mmmmm shadowtrap... whats that ?"

babacloantaMember

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@ Wed, 11/03/2009 - 15:25

contrary to the natural belief, Shynaski is very delicate and smart. Unusual for a dwarf but MANY wise things he said!

King's Honour!

ShadowbeamMember

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@ Wed, 11/03/2009 - 18:37

Soll its totally understandble as rl always come first. I hope you will stay in the guild and pop in from time to time.

Its been great having you along and gl with your girlfriend Smiling

Cheers
Shadow

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Zederoth

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@ Wed, 11/03/2009 - 19:29

Good Bye mate. I dont know you much and dont have the experience about this, but I TRULY wish you good luck in this situation and that you sort this out.

KareiGerard ButlerMember

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@ Wed, 11/03/2009 - 19:47

Hang in there Sol, good things happen to good people eventually Smiling
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StellviaMember

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@ Wed, 11/03/2009 - 20:18

Het beste SOlleke, en wie weten koomen we mekaar wel eens tegen in sinneklaas op de markt of zo Smiling

shynaski wrote:

cyberwanking times with Stellvia for when you GF is away/is busy/is in a good mood,

or include your GF like Shy always did, makes it more interesting and you can blackmail Shy afterwards for details he doesn't want anyone to know Eye-wink